tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post2264590682496080603..comments2024-02-19T02:08:32.593-08:00Comments on A Solitary Journey: For Better or Worse: Really?Brenda Finding Elysiumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06025525146200651714noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post-43276703853938210682016-11-04T06:21:19.928-07:002016-11-04T06:21:19.928-07:00Hi Cherie,
Thanks for stopping by and congratulati...Hi Cherie,<br />Thanks for stopping by and congratulations on your pending divorce. It is very painful to realize that your marriage was a sham but I am happy that you are moving towards health and authenticity.<br /><br />I'm glad the blog is helpful.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />BrendaBrenda Finding Elysiumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06025525146200651714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post-78191359113368655992016-11-03T18:56:36.245-07:002016-11-03T18:56:36.245-07:00Thank you for your blog. It has been so helpful to...Thank you for your blog. It has been so helpful to me. Your favorite books and uplifting postings have been a godsend. Cherienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post-15415807801424967382016-11-03T18:53:27.363-07:002016-11-03T18:53:27.363-07:00I am getting out of a marriage to a man who led a ...I am getting out of a marriage to a man who led a double/triple life for our entire marriage and who also tried to justify how he didn't actually "technically" lie to me - because I didn't ask the right questions. Lies of omission and confusing distractions with the intent to deceive has been so confusing. I look back on my 30 years with him and keep asking "who WAS he?" Smoke and mirrors. And the scary thing to me is that I don't think he BECAME that, but that he always WAS that deceptive person. I agree that death would have been an easier separation. My husband was not a pedophile (I don't think), and I always thought in my mind that the only worse situation is that he would have been one. I am so sorry for what you went through and the lingering impact to your psyche - it must be so terrible for your children too.Cherienoreply@blogger.com