tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post1845197892164712763..comments2024-02-19T02:08:32.593-08:00Comments on A Solitary Journey: Connection as the Remedy for AddictionBrenda Finding Elysiumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06025525146200651714noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post-67856835629661796162015-01-26T05:50:19.150-08:002015-01-26T05:50:19.150-08:00Thank you for your comment, Anonymous. It is st...Thank you for your comment, Anonymous. It is startling to realize that one's spouse is not connected to the relationship or to you. I'm glad you were able to get out.<br /><br />BrendaBrenda Finding Elysiumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06025525146200651714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1620025602611232958.post-53416032938176709782015-01-24T16:27:19.364-08:002015-01-24T16:27:19.364-08:00This is a wonderful posting. My ex treated people ...This is a wonderful posting. My ex treated people who didn't really matter better than his own family. He wasn't available for connection and eventually I gave up on trying to make that connection with him. It is quite sad. He led a life lying, cheating, hiding, pretending - trying to escape something and never making a connection with himself. I learned that I couldn't fix that or help him because he wasn't invested in doing that himself. Somehow he found refuge in escaping, being the white knight for women who really didn't matter and who he didn't care about either. It's all quite baffling.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com